Butch to femme dating
This might limit your social scene, but it's the most fail-proof.
If you're a conversation with an obvious lesbian, casually mention an ex-girlfriend.
"The way I do it is to get onstage and announce I'm a single lesbian who has a lipstick addiction."Carroll continues: “I wrote a piece for the "Persistence" anthology about this exact thing. How do you let queers know you're queer when you look more Donna Reed than Pat Califia?
It makes me uncomfortable and so does your sexuality.Without a doubt, the butch girl in the room will find a way to talk to someone you're with and eventually say, "Your friend is hot." At that point, your friend can fill the butch in, and you've done nothing but stand nearby and radiate sensual goodness.Often the best way to tell another lesbian is by eye contact.We go from playing football in the mud to shopping at the mall, from writing poetry in our rooms to moshing at a death metal concert, from publically crying to pushing down all emotions and closing ourselves off to the world. On top of that, women can connect with each other on the deepest of levels.Whether we are best friends in middle school or long-term intimate lovers, women can open themselves up to their core and dig until they find yours.