Dating an airforce pilot
If the relationship can last through the random scheduling, the missed holidays and milestones, the jealousies, and other various challenges involved with being—and being with—an airline pilot, then maybe, just maybe, the pilot and their significant other will reach a point of contentment and relief.
Chanel Cleeton is the author of the e-books Flirting with Scandal, Playing with Trouble, and Falling for Danger. Saying another plane is cooler is tantamount to hitting on another man. Feel silly introducing a grown man as “Havoc” or “Spiderman”? Call signs replace first names and you will learn to think of your man’s call sign as his alter ego and even refer to him as such. Mild-mannered husband by day, badass fighter pilot by night. Against your best intentions, you will learn the words. So if you ever need to needle your fighter pilot (and let’s be honest, you probably will), a well-timed If fighter pilots say something mundane that could also be construed as sexual, they follow it up with “so to speak.” Basically, “that’s what she said.” Yes, it’s annoying. They can take thrill seeking to extremes and that extends to lots of aspects of their lives.
Often, the last thing they want to do is hop on another airplane.
A pilot who attains seniority can bid for a schedule that suits their needs, making it possible for them to—finally—be home on Christmas and attend important school functions for their kids.
While crash pad living might sound like a party, many pilots find the situation annoying and lonely.
An airline pilot's hectic schedule begins right away, usually during simulator training.The details can become sources of contention, and often, spouses feel left out and misunderstood themselves.Oftentimes, the truth is that being away from home for long stretches of time isn't all that exciting or fun.But the job makes being married or in a serious relationship complicated.The erratic schedule, especially in the early years on the job, and the long periods away from home make it hard to maintain a relationship.