Dating spouse during separation
I don't usually see that much concern about being honest to the person outside the two-some.
It would be nice to see concern about the ethics about how the 'other' is treated.
It so happens that that is often done via what a relationship and its problems has to teach them. If we say there is, then we deprive people of learning, and hopefully communicating, about how they really feel and also to work through the relationship outside of its imposed rules, which is where two people have the greatest opportunity to come together in honesty as human beings.
If that happens, one is much better equipped to decide whether he or she is with the right person.
I also think that people are complicated and when you "couple" them it's even worse and can be very hard to figure out.
Having been through it myself, I think it's easy to create logical solutions and arguments for all kinds of advice, but in the end, I also think it's about giving people the space to figure themselves out.
He didn’t try to hold my hand, hug me, or even really get close at all.
Keep in mind that party 2 doesn't want a break, nor are they aware of party 1's actions.
DO NOT DATE DURING DIVORCE AND CERTAINLY DO NOT LIVE WITH A GIRLFRIEND OR BOYFRIEND DURING THE DIVORCE.
I can’t change him or this night, so I have to work on changing me.
I need to let go of my fairy-tale, romantic-movie fantasies.