Text chatting with pornstars
It’s the same kind of distinction between trying to prove yourself to a girl by spending lots of money on her, instead of just finding a way to let her figure out on her own that you’re killing it in your career.
One displays confidence and the other does just the opposite.
If you’re not usually a funny guy, don’t try to be when you’re trying to learn how to talk to a girl you like.
If you’re a deep guy, don’t try and hide it when you’re figuring out how to attract a girl.
Okay, you still have to try when you’re talking to a girl.
Whether you hate it as a form of communication, or you can’t put your phone away each day, you’re going to have to learn how to text a girl that you’re interested in.
Sometimes out of nervousness, a guy can start talking too much about himself.
Whether he’s trying to get a girlfriend or just a hook-up, he tends to get worried that he’ll run out of things to say, so as a reaction, he’ll just push play and never stop talking.
Most people are worried about dishonesty when they decide to throw in with someone new, but if she trusts you from the get-go, she’ll be quick to let you build a bond with her going forward.
Don’t be a chameleon; stick to your guns and she’ll come to you.